Unmasking Patriarchy
1. Understanding the basic concepts of gender/sex and Sex role
stereotypes
According to Kamla Bhasin Genders refers to the
socio-cultural definition of man and woman, the way societies distinguish men
and women and assign them social roles. The distinction between sex and gender
was introduced to deal with the general tendency to attribute women’s
subordination to their anatomy. The concept of gender enables us to state
that’s ex is one thing but gender is quite another. Ann Oakley says
that, “Gender is a matter of culture; it refers to the social classification of
men and women into masculine and feminine.
Difference between these two terms
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SEX |
GENDER |
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Sex is natural |
Gender is socio-cultural and it is man-made |
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Sex is biological; differences in genitalia and procreative
function. |
Gender is socio-cultural refers to masculine and feminine
qualities, behavior patterns, roles and responsibilities.
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Sex is constant |
Gender is variable changes time to time, culture to culture and
family to family. |
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Sex cannot be changed |
Gender can be changed. |
The key concepts sex and gender in modern feminist literature: (i)
Sex is a biological designation and corresponds to male and female as
biological/sexual definitions. (ii) Gender is a social designation referring to
socio-cultural consequences or implications of sex, i.e. the particular
cultural shape of sex (biological nature) into different roles, status and
normative patterns of behavior attributed to men and women in a given culture.
(iii) Gender can also be distinguished as a symbolic, ideological category
referring to sexual myths, ideas about female and male nature, polarized
philosophical and ideological definitions of masculine and feminine; these
provide the foundation for socio-cultural inequality.
Sex Roles Stereotypes
In many Asian cultures the birth of a son is celebrated, the birth
of a daughter is bemoaned; sons are showered with love, respect, better food
and better health care. Boys are encouraged to be tough and outgoing; girls are
encouraged to be demure and home-bound.
Men are considered to be heads of households, bread-winners, owners
and managers of property, and active in politics, religion, business and the
professions. Women, on the other hand are expected and trained to bear and look
after children, to nurse the infirm and old, do all household works, so on.
2. Different theories of gender and origin of patriarchy
Patriarchy simply implies “male domination”, “male prejudice
(against women)”, or simply “male power”. So, the term is simply “the absolute
rule of the father or the eldest male member over his family”. Patriarchy is thus
the rule of the father over all women in the family and also over younger
socially and economically subordinate males. Literally, patriarchy means rule
by the male head of a social unit (like family, tribe). The patriarch is
typically a societal elder who has legitimate power over others in the social
unit. It refer to the system of legal, social, economic and political
structures through which men exercises collective sovereignty over women,
children and less powerful males.
According to Robert M. Strozier, historical research has not
yet found a specific "initiating event" of the origin of patriarchy.
Some scholars point to the concept of 'fatherhood root' as the beginning of the
spread of patriarchy as it came into being six thousand years ago. Domination
of women by men is found even in the Ancient Near East as far back as 3100 BCE,
as there were restrictions imposed on a woman's reproductive capacity. There is
also the evidence of her exclusion from "the process of representing or
the construction of history." With the appearance of the Hebrews, there
was also "the exclusion of woman from the God-humanity covenant".
Feminist theory typically characterizes patriarchy as a social
construction, which can be overcome by revealing and critically analyzing
its manifestations. According to standard sociological theory, patriarchy is
the result of sociological constructions that are passed down from generation
to generation. These constructions are most pronounced in societies with
traditional cultures and less economic development.
Some socio-biologists, such as Steven Goldberg argue that
social behavior is primarily determined by genetics and that patriarchy comes
into being more as a result of inherent biology than social conditioning. He
also contends that patriarchy is a universal feature of human culture.
3. Analyzing the concerns of “ideal women”/ “man” in the
patriarchal culture
Patriarchy not only explains how our society functions but also as
to how it controls women. It is best defined as 'control' by men. Its opposite
is 'matriarchy,' where women are in charge and act as heads of families. The
culture of the majority of the countries including India is patriarchal as men
arguably have power and control over women.
Women must constantly fight for their rights and at times even
struggle just to survive without power. The majority of the world leaders are a
living testimony to the fact that patriarchy reigns supreme. Nevertheless,
given an opportunity, women can be as powerful as men are. For average women,
on the contrary, it would be a distant dream to be on par with men simply
because men have the advantage of a culturally conditioned mindset.
Sarojini Naidu, is considered
to be an ideal women. During political activity she campaigned for women’s
right. In 1917, she was involved in the campaign for women right’s lecturing or
women’s emancipation and petitioning the secretary of state on women’s
franchise rights, but her views were conservative as she had a traditional view
of the ideal women. Moreover, she emphasis was on harmony and comradely
cooperation between man and women in the common struggle for freedom and
progress.
Pandita Ramabai Sarasvati (23 April 1858 – 5 April 1922) was an
Indian social reformer, a pioneer in the education and emancipation of women in
India. She was the first woman to be accorded the titles of Pandita as a
Sanskrit scholar and Sarasvati after being examined by the faculty of the
University of Calcutta.
Ramabai went to Khedgaon near Pune, where she had purchased 100
acres of land, and set up Mukti Mission. She provided housing to women and
children attending the school. Widows were encouraged not only to be
independent, but were taught a variety of skills – from carpentry to running a
printing press, the kind of skill sets that women were barred from acquiring
and learning then. She also designed a remedial curriculum which included
subjects like physiology and botany. It also included learning about one’s own
body and physical world around them. Industrial training, printing, carpentry,
tailoring, masonry, wood-cutting, weaving and needlework, as well as training
in farming and gardening was taught.
Pandita Ramabai was a truly remarkable woman who pioneered women’s
education and rebelliously championed for women’s rights and empowerment. eminist
scholarship remains in debt to the philosophy and work of Pandita Ramabai. Her
vision continues to drive the feminist movement and scholarship even today, as
it also continues to impact the lives of many women and young girls. She
remains one of the most prominent women leader of Maharashtra and India.
Mother Teresa, Teresa
founded the Missionaries of Charity, a Roman Catholic religious congregation
that had over 4,500 nuns and was active in 133 countries in 2012. The
congregation manages homes for people who are dying of HIV/AIDS, leprosy and
tuberculosis. It also runs soup kitchens, dispensaries, mobile clinics,
children's and family counselling programmes, as well as orphanages and
schools. Members take vows of chastity, poverty, and obedience, and also
profess a fourth vow – to give "wholehearted free service to the poorest
of the poor."
Teresa received a number of honors, including the 1962 Ramon
Magsaysay Peace Prize and 1979 Nobel Peace Prize (first woman to win the Nobel
Peace Prize). She was canonised on 4 September 2016, and the anniversary of her
death (5 September) is her feast day. Known for her extensive work for the poor
and the downtrodden people.
She dedicated her life to working for the poor people of India. She
received many awards in India and elsewhere in the world. Through her
Missionary of Charities organization, she personally cared for thousands of
sick and dying people in Calcutta. She also worked tirelessly 24/7 to eradicate
poverty and improve lives around the world. She is frequently featured on any
list of "women who changed the world."