Wednesday, 24 June 2026

NOTICE THE WARNING SIGNS

NOTICE THE WARNING SIGNS

NOTICE THE WARNING SIGNS

You don’t get into a car immediately worrying that you’re going to have a crash. That would be a very fearful way to live life and it would drive you insane. However, you could still take measures, such as wearing a seatbelt, to prevent serious injury if an accident did happen. This action, too, may result from fear, but this is why fear exists: to protect us from danger.

If you caused a car accident because you consumed too much alcohol but you survived, it would be even more irresponsible for you to do it again. If you did, you’d be volunteering for another accident, which could potentially lead to your death. In other words, you’re ignoring the lesson and suggesting to the Universe that you should receive that lesson again.

So pay attention to the warning signs. You’re always being guided by the Universe to live authentically and purposefully, and to experience the greater things in life. But if something doesn’t go the way you wanted, ask yourself what you can learn from it – because every bad experience has a learning outcome to be taken on board. Ask yourself what changes you need to make. And don’t mask unhealthy choices with optimism when you know they’re not right, or let emotional cravings and temporary comfort inspire you to venture for more pain.

If you keep taking a bite out of

the cake that harmed you, you

no longer fall victim to it, you

become a hungry volunteer.

LESSONS WILL REPEAT THEMSELVES

LESSONS WILL REPEAT THEMSELVES

LESSONS WILL REPEAT THEMSELVES

Life conditions you. It swings at you, it

kicks you while you’re down and it stamps

on you. And yet you survive and walk

around as the new and improved version of

yourself. Because the challenges that some

people still find hard, you have overcome.

The next time you pray for your situation to change, realize that you’re in that situation so that you can change. Life provides us with lessons that we can handle and that will bring out the best in us. It then tests us to make sure we’ve learned our lesson. Some of these tests are cruel and some are quite lenient.

Occasionally we experience the same obstacles over and over again, because we still have learning to do. It might be that we haven’t learned our lesson properly. The best way to confirm if someone has learned their lesson is to test them more than once, further down the line. I could give you a lesson now, and as it would still be fresh in your mind, you’d probably be able to pass a test on it quite easily.

However, if I gave you the same test a few months later, it would be more challenging. This would be a true test of whether or not you have understood what you’ve been taught. For example, if you rush a relationship with someone you hardly know and then end up getting hurt, the lesson might be that you need to get to know someone before you jump into a relationship with them.

Just saying that you’ve learned your lesson is

not always enough – you have to prove it.

So the Universe might then introduce you to someone else, someone who has irresistible charm. To prove that you’ve learned your lesson, you have to show it. If you jump into another relationship quickly, then there’s a chance you might get hurt again. While you should take this example lightly, I hope you can see that sometimes we’re given the same test more than once, and it can be even harder the second or third time round. 

Frank Sonnenberg: "Lessons in life will be repeated until they are learned."

Cherie Carter-Scott: "Lessons will repeat to you in various forms until you have learned them. When you have learned them, you can then go on to the next lesson."

Unknown: "Any lesson you refuse to learn will repeat until you do."

Paulo Coelho: "Life will keep giving you the same lesson until you decide to learn it."

PAIN CHANGES PEOPLE

PAIN CHANGES PEOPLE

PAIN CHANGES PEOPLE

Life will test you

just before it will bless you.

Some of the best changes in life result from the most painful experiences. We need to experience low points in our life in order to gain the wisdom, strength and knowledge we need to appreciate the high points.

When we experience low points on our journey towards change, life can feel confusing and challenging. It’s extremely difficult to trust the process and to have faith that good things will follow. But we need to remember that, using the lessons we learn along the way, we can make better choices going forward. If you’ve had your heart broken before, you might decide to pay more attention when picking a partner. This might lead you down the path to finding your soulmate – someone who treats you much better than anyone ever has before.

Every choice you make leads to more choices. As you go about your day-to- day life, remember that if you make just one different choice, you may experience a completely different day. Imagine a boy going to meet a girl at the cinema for their first date. The boy decides to eat something before he goes, and consequently his stomach becomes unsettled. He then has to visit the bathroom and ends up leaving late for the date. The girl gets tired of waiting and leaves the cinema a few minutes before he arrives.

As he arrives at the cinema and realizes that she’s gone, he heads back home, only to bump accidentally into a girl whom he has an instant attraction to. Now imagine they both get talking, fall in love, get married and have kids. All this occurs purely because he missed his actual date.

Everything is connected. If something tragic has happened in your past, think of something good that’s happened recently – they’re linked. That first event somehow created different choices in you, which led to you experiencing something good.

Sometimes we have to take a look back at the events in our life and start connecting the dots. There was probably a reason for each occurrence. If we look carefully, things might start making sense. If they do, surely we can be certain that all future events, whether they bring us pain or pleasure, have a purpose.

"Pain changes people. It makes them trust less, overthink more, and shut people out." 

"Pain makes people change, but it also makes them stronger." 

"Pain changes people. Some become rude and some become silent.

"Although the world is full of suffering, it is full also of the overcoming of it."Helen Keller

"Be patient and tough; someday this pain will be useful to you."Ovid 

  

Pain and Purpose

Pain and Purpose

Pain and Purpose

Life doesn’t battle you because you’re

weak, it battles you because you’re

strong. It knows that if it gives you

pain, you’ll realize your power.

The great Greek philosopher Aristotle claimed that everything happens for a reason. You can apply this when you consider that every experience in your life is designed to shape you and help you grow into the highest and mightiest version of yourself. This means that even a negative experience can be seen as an opportunity for growth, rather than a time for suffering.

(This doesn’t mean that we shouldn’t grieve or feel down when we do go through painful life experiences, and it’s important to give yourself time to heal after such events.) If you always play the victim when something goes wrong, life will always treat you like one. Don’t let your circumstances define your future.

Aristotle’s belief may make people think, ‘Yes! I feel that!’, give them hope or slightly annoy them. I understand why some might find the phrase irritating; when someone goes through a horrific experience it’s very difficult to see reason for it. All they feel is pain, and they may feel that by saying this, you’re demonstrating your ignorance about their situation.

However, the majority of us go through at least one period in our lives that we find very tough. So we can relate to someone’s low points to some extent, even if we don’t understand them exactly, because we have felt low ourselves.

Sometimes we just have to believe there’s a good reason behind it that will reveal itself to us when we’re ready to acknowledge it.

A schoolteacher of mine once told me a story about how his brother missed the last train from the town he was studying in to go home for the holiday season. When the brother missed the train, he was devastated and angry with himself.

However, later that evening he learned that train he was meant to have taken had tragically crashed and nearly all the passengers had died. Upon hearing this, he thanked God for saving him from what could have been his last breath, and he said, ‘Everything happens for a reason.’ I’m sure the friends and family of the deceased passengers wouldn’t have agreed, but from the brother’s perspective the phrase made perfect sense.

Just because you can’t see the

point behind a challenging time,

doesn’t mean there isn’t one.

Writing to reachout others and to inspire requires lots of hardwork and we must endure pain. There is a purpose to that pain. That’s why we continue to endure and sustain pain. This phrase gives you an empowering perspective so you can move forward with your life.

The past cannot be changed; only our perception of it can. By creating this shift in mindset, we start to trust that everything that happens to us also happens for us. As we begin to change our perception to a positive one, our life improves. If we don’t change it, we lose our joy and are consigned to low vibrational states.

 “The great art of life is sensation, to feel that we exist, even in pain.”Lord Byron

“I'm willing to take any amount of pain to win.”- Lewis Hamilton

 


FLOW WITH THE UNIVERSE

FLOW WITH THE UNIVERSE

FLOW WITH THE UNIVERSE

Embrace good vibes and learn to let

things flow. There is no need to force

outcomes. Once you are in harmony

with the Universe, what’s meant

to be yours will come to you.

No one in the world has always manifested every single goal they’ve wanted in the time they’ve desired. You can change outcomes through your vibe, but you must accept that things will unfold in their own time and for your highest good – which sometimes means in a way you hadn’t imagined.

Once you’ve learned to hone your manifestation skills, you must let go of your attachment to the goal. By trying to force or control the outcome, you breed resistance by feeding fear and doubt. When your heart is in something, only good things can follow.

Now, this may not always seem true. But remember that rejections are just redirections to better things. Setbacks are pauses for thought, opportunities to alter your plans – for the better. And however big any failure may feel at the time, there’s always a lesson to learn. Only with faith can we recognize the value of our apparent downfalls. What we truly want often comes wrapped in different packaging.

Learn to let go and let things flow. The concepts of action and inaction must be balanced. Your job is to do the best you can to achieve this.

"The Universe is saying: 'Allow me to flow through you unrestricted, and you will see the greatest magic you have ever seen.”Klaus Joehle

"To the mind that is still, the whole universe surrenders." Lao Tzu

"The best way to live Life is to flow with it; accepting what is, making sincere efforts to repair whatever needs fixing and trusting the process."

 

 

FAITH VS FEAR

FAITH VS FEAR

FAITH VS FEAR

No matter how much you worry, your problem isn’t

going to improve. Be wiser with your attention and

energy. You can only step up in the world once you

put your anxieties, fears and worries under your feet.

Faith is an active choice we make to stay optimistic. It can be extremely demanding to show faith in your goals at times. Fear will creep in and deceive you. It will steer you away from all the greatness that you’re due to be blessed with.

Fear is a mechanism that helps us to avoid physical harm or death. Yet we often use it to stay comfortable – to avoid challenges. We utilize it in the wrong way and it just ends up hindering our progress and preventing us from reaching our full potential. Fear keeps our lives mediocre, because it forces us to flee from our potential, rather than from anything truly harmful.

Fear sets us back in our everyday lives and controls our choices. We use our precious energy to imagine what could go wrong, instead of having faith in what could go right. And our actions reflect this.

Both faith and fear ask you to believe in something that cannot be seen. You may fear stepping outside in the cold because you believe it will make you ill, even if at present you’re not ill and it’s unlikely that exposure to cold would cause illness. This is just a figment of your imagination until it manifests as your reality.

We make fear-based assumptions all the time.

Unfortunately, when feed these assumptions

they expand into our experience.

Fear is a low vibrational state and it therefore brings about more of what you don’t want in your life. Unlike faith, it disempowers the mind and this is reflected in your experiences. If you remove fear, your experience improves. For example, a surgeon without fear is likely to be less hesitant and more focused. Their decision-making may be considerably better, resulting in an improved performance.

Replacing fear with faith encourages us to do the unthinkable: it helps us to explore the realms of possibility. Faith doesn’t necessarily make things easier, but it does make them possible. When going after your goals, you must have an unwavering faith that can remain sturdy when challenged by venomous opinions or unfortunate twists of fate. The faith I’m talking about is the one that says, ‘I’m going to win,’ when all you can see is losses.

Sometimes all we have is our faith – our faith

in the fact that things are going to get better.

Hang on to it and keep believing, even if

that means you’re the only one who does.

 

"Faith and fear both demand that we believe in something we cannot see. You choose." Bob Proctor

"Fear is the darkroom where negatives are developed." Michael Pritchard

"Fear is a reaction. Courage is a decision." Winston Churchill

"Many of our fears are tissue-paper thin, and a single courageous step would carry us clear through them." Brendan Francis

"When you fear take a leap of faith, your trust must take over your fear." Johny L. F. Tusing

"For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind." 2 Timothy 1:7

"The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?" Psalm 27:1

SWITCH SHORT-TERM PLEASURES FOR LONG-TERM GAINS

SWITCH SHORT-TERM PLEASURES FOR LONG-TERM GAINS

SWITCH SHORT-TERM PLEASURES FOR LONG-TERM GAINS

You’re not missing out on anything great if you’re

using that time to make your life greater.

Any kind of pleasure that lasts for a short period of time is considered a short-term pleasure. Eating excellent food, having sex, drinking alcohol, or engaging in any other activity that momentarily causes the brain to produce dopamine are examples of this kind of pleasure.

Many youth chase for short-term enjoyment. But a healthy balance between living for the moment and investing in the future is always required when you have goals.

Many have the gut to enjoy short-term pleasure for a short moment and vanishes like a dew by spending lots of money, time and energy.

People often complain that they don’t have the time or the money to start their own business, while simultaneously spending lots of time and money on leisure activities. In some places, a single glass of an alcoholic beverage costs more than a book.

Which one is more likely to change your life? People invest in the wrong places, and often they unwittingly fund someone else’s dreams; someone who’s worked their ass off and has now manifested their goals thanks to your spare cash.

There are so many individuals living to deprive their life’s real treasures.

I believe that everyone is destined for a greater life. Yet I understand that many people are unwilling to delay brief gratification for the sake of longterm rewards. When you’re unwilling to delay temporary pleasures, this can have massive implications for your future.

Most people are living the ‘When I have X, I’ll be happy’ way of life, but this is a delusion. However, you can have pleasure in the present by living mindfully, appreciatively, and altering your perspective. You’re free to make your own choices, but you can’t escape their consequences. Sometimes we have to sacrifice small things to get our hands on the bigger blessings in life.

I’m not saying you should ignore all of your urges or stop having fun. But form a healthy balance between work and play while moderating where you’re placing your time and energy.

Switch Short-Term Pleasures For Long-Term Gains.

Be wise not only to your eyes.

 “When you buy into short-term pleasure, you are investing in long-term pain.” Scott Allan.

THE QUICK-FIX SOCIETY

THE QUICK-FIX SOCIETY

THE QUICK-FIX SOCIETY

Patience is a must when pursuing your goals. Your desires can take a while to manifest. If you believe you’re doing everything in your power to manifest your goals, sometimes all you need to do is practise a little patience. Accept today as it is and stay optimistic in the face of delays, setbacks or challenges.

Time is the most precious commodity you have. When time is spent, it’s gone forever. This is why businesses that save their customers time often thrive. But while these companies might significantly improve our lives, they’ve also contributed to the creation of a quick-fix society.

The quick-fix society demands instant solutions. We expect things to be done straight away. We want to use less effort and less time to get a desirable outcome. Online clothing retailers will get clothes to us the next day. Services like Amazon Prime get all manner of goods to us within a day.

If you want to watch a movie or a television show, you can just hop on to Netflix and pick something. If you want a date, you just need to swipe through a dating app. Meals can be replaced by frozen ones that can be heated in a microwave in a few minutes. No more need for patience – we can get what we want without delay.

There’s nothing wrong with indulging in these things now and then, but they’ve created a culture of impatience. We don’t want to wait, and if we have to wait we may lose faith in our intentions. The assumption is that things must arrive quickly, with minimal effort. Don’t get me wrong: if you can achieve something great at lightning speed, that’s fantastic. Just don’t be oblivious to the fact that most things in life require effort and patience.

This quick-fix way of life encourages us to give up on our goals when they don’t manifest as rapidly as we’d hoped, and move on to the next thing.

This will never be fulfilling. A lot of the time, your goals aren’t eluding you; you either haven’t put in the effort you need to or you’re expecting things to happen instantaneously. Practise a little patience.

You’ll get the job, the partner,

the house, the car, etc. Just don’t

rush the process; trust it. You

have to grow into your dreams.

 

“there are no quick fixes. If we want our lives to change, we have to do the work.” ― Scott Stabile

“A quick fix for a long-standing problem only works for the short term.” ― Dr. Jacinta Mpalyenkana

“Real change happens bit by bit. It takes great effort to become effortless at anything. There are no quick fixes.” - Geneen Roth

“In the soil of the quick fix is the seed of a new problem, because our quiet wisdom is unavailable.”  - Wayne Muller


Tuesday, 23 June 2026

PROCRASTINATION WILL DELAY YOUR DREAMS

PROCRASTINATION WILL DELAY YOUR DREAMS

PROCRASTINATION WILL DELAY YOUR DREAMS

Procrastination is a habit. If the task ahead of you seems so insurmountable that you don’t know where to start, you’ll put it off – again and again; perhaps you choose a distraction as being more favourable or comfortable.

It’s important to kill this habit if you want to manifest your goals. Do it before procrastination becomes the assassination of your dreams.

Behaviours of chronic procrastinators include:

  • putting things off until a later date or the last minute
  • carrying out less urgent tasks before urgent ones
  • getting distracted before or while doing something
  • facing things only when they’re unavoidable
  • claiming that you haven’t got time to do something
  • waiting for the right time or mood to do something
  • not completing tasks at all

Does this sound like you? Procrastinators avoid things that require action. Some of us do everything apart from what we need to do in order to be in harmony with our goals. For example, when typing up an essay for a deadline, a procrastinator might first browse the Internet and waste precious time.

We don’t just procrastinate over small tasks, but over our biggest goals, too.

Someone who procrastinated before taking action on their dreams mostly fails to achieved their goal. Some of us are fearful, but unwilling to leave his comfort zone, and overanalytical. These are common traits in chronic procrastinators. These qualities led him to deviate from the path to achieving his goals.

In order to be successful we need a full-time commitment and doing things in time. Procrastinator often lacked self-belief. They doubted their own potential and didn’t want to feel uncomfortable by compromising their existing lifestyle as well. They don’t usually pursued their passion.

You don’t need it all figured out. The more you

think you do, the more you’ll procrastinate and

fear moving forward. Have courage and start

now, even if you start small. Just go for it!

When you find yourself procrastinating, it’s important to devise a strategy to overcome this. It’s easy to do this for smaller goals, like completing an essay, but it’s more challenging with bigger goals, like creating a successful online business.

So break your goals down. Big goals can be overwhelming, and it’s hard to imagine how you’ll ever cross the finish line. It’s more effective to set smaller goals and prioritize them in order of urgency.

If the goals still seem big after you’ve made

them smaller, break them down further.

If you can meet smaller goals, you’ll become more confident about bigger goals. Even if you’re trying to manifest money, start by making the goal a fraction of the desired amount. So, if the goal is to have 1, 50,000, work on making 100 to begin with. After you make 100, you can try to make another 100 until you reach your target amount.

We have four types of feel-good hormones in our body: dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin and endorphins. Dopamine, in particular, encourages us to take action towards our goals and provides us with feelings of pleasure when we achieve them. When we lack enthusiasm for a task, it means our dopamine levels are low.

When you break big goals down into smaller ones, you overcome this. Your brain will celebrate every time you meet a goal by releasing dopamine.

You’ll then be encouraged to take further action on the rest of your goals. If your final goal is time-sensitive, make sure each smaller goal has a deadline on it. You can only meet big goals on time if your smaller ones are done on time, too.

If you still struggle to beat procrastination, try the following techniques:

1. Get rid of every distraction possible, even if this means changing your environment. Have you ever been hungry and ended up snacking on something unhealthy just because it was there? If it wasn’t there, the temptation wouldn’t exist. We get distracted by things that are easily available to us.

2. Give yourself an incentive to complete the task. For example, tell yourself you can meet with your friends later if you finish whatever needs to be done. This will give you something to look forward to and motivate you to take action.

3. Take breaks to do something enjoyable. We all need a little time out when working, but make sure your breaks are for a fixed duration. If you want to watch a new episode of a show, schedule a period for it and don’t exceed it.

4. Get creative. Make your tasks more appealing. When doing activities that don’t require much thought, you could play music in the background. This will raise your vibration. Singing along might make the activity even more enjoyable.

5. Get some help if required. Never be afraid to ask for help. Talk to someone who’s recently accomplished a similar goal to you. This may provide much-needed inspiration and they may be able to give you valuable guidance.

6. Give yourself a consequence for not taking action. For example, you could tell yourself that if you don’t go to the gym today, you can’t watch television for the entire week. To ensure you don’t go back on what you say, make sure you tell others about it.

7. Announce your intentions to some trustworthy friends. This will give you some accountability; they’ll know if you don’t stick to your plans, and they might even give you a little push to ensure that you achieve what you set out to do.

 “Procrastination is the thief of time." Edward Young

"You may delay, but time will not." Benjamin Franklin

“Putting off an easy thing makes it hard, and putting off a hard one makes it impossible." George H. Lorimer

"Procrastination is opportunity's assassin." Victor Kiam

"A year from now you may wish you had started today." Karen Lamb

Procrastination is like a virus, gradually it will slow down your immunity and if antidote or vaccine is not taken wisely, likely you will be gone.” Johny L.F.Tusing

 

ORDINARY OR EXTRAORDINARY?

ORDINARY OR EXTRAORDINARY?

ORDINARY OR EXTRAORDINARY?

The difference between ordinary and extraordinary

is simple: extraordinary people will get things

done even when they don’t feel like it, because

they’re fully committed to their goals.

When you pursue a goal you’re passionate about, you’ll naturally be motivated to achieve it. If you don’t find the process enjoyable, then you may want to reevaluate where you’re investing your efforts.

This isn’t to say that you won’t have your down days, even if you’re very focused on your goal. If you hold a high vibration or make an effort to increase it, motivation will come quite easily to you, but the prospect of having to take action can lower your vibration if you’re not in the right frame of mind.

Maintaining your motivation isn’t always an easy task, especially following a setback or on a dark and gloomy day. Motivation comes and goes. Low motivation might indicate that you need time out to recharge. Or it could mean you need to go out and search for inspiration.

If you still don’t feel motivated, proceed anyway and be willing to get things done. You didn’t expect me to say that, did you? It might not sound very appealing, but experience has taught me that this behaviour – this grit – is a key difference between ordinary and extraordinary. It’s about commitment. When you don’t want to roll out of bed in the early hours, or when you really can’t be bothered to go to that meeting on the other side of town – you do it anyway! You recognize that the effort you put in will be worth the rewards that come later.

Although writing is a passion of mine (though I’m not good enough), I’ll readily admit that I’ve groaned at some of the tasks involved in creating this blog. Some have been extremely tedious – but even as I write this line, I’m focused on the result. Things are always easier when you’re in the mood to do them, but if you want to live a greater life than the average person, you have to commit the same effort even when you’re not.

"Sometimes the most ordinary things could be made extraordinary, simply by doing them with the right people." Nicholas Sparks

"To live an extraordinary life, you must resist an ordinary approach." Frank McKinney

"There are no extraordinary men... just extraordinary circumstances that ordinary men are forced to deal with." William Halsey

“Don’t let ordinary things describe your life. Be an Extraordinary!!” Johny L F Tusing

 

 

CONSISTENCY LEADS TO RESULTS

CONSISTENCY LEADS TO RESULTS

CONSISTENCY LEADS TO RESULTS

We must be consistent as we strive

to achieve our goals.

Imagine that you want to build lean muscle, so you purchase a three-month workout and nutrition plan from a personal trainer. You then follow 50 per cent of the instructions, but after a month you notice that you’re not getting the results you’d hoped for. You might conclude that the plan doesn’t work.

Alternatively, you might follow the whole plan but observe after two or three weeks that the results aren’t showing. Again, you say that the plan doesn’t work. In both cases, you simply give up on it.

If you do 50 per cent of the plan, you can expect no more than 50 per cent of the results. If you’re not consistent in your actions, then you can’t assume that you’ll see the final results you were expecting. I myself did a home workout series. It was a two-month programme and after a month I couldn’t see any exciting results. In spite of this, I promised myself I’d see it out until the end. I’m glad I did: I dropped nearly three inches off my waist by the end of the second month.

The same goes for devotion, affirmations, visualizations and any other positive practice. If you want to reap the benefits, you have to do regular, solid practice. Be committed to the cause. With consistency, we can create habits that shape our lives.

Lack of time isn’t an excuse. If you can’t make the time for something, it’s not a high enough priority for you. If something is important to you, you’ll make the time for it.

‘We are what we repeatedly do.

Excellence then, is not an act,

but a habit.’

ARISTOTLE

Football legend David Beckham was once known for his amazing free kicks. Each time he stepped up to take one, the crowd were certain that the ball was going to land in the back of the net.

Beckham didn’t become a master of free kicks overnight. He practised over and over again. He didn’t practise until he got his free kicks right, but until he couldn’t get them wrong. Even when he was scoring them, he ensured that he stayed consistent with his practice. With repetition comes habit.

Not everything will work, or be the best fit, for you. Reviewing your methods and adapting to change is vital. If you’ve given something a good shot but you’re still not progressing, this might be a sign that you need to try a new approach. Use your intuition to guide you. If something feels wrong, it usually is!

"Small disciplines repeated with consistency every day lead to great achievements gained slowly over time." John C. Maxwell

"Success isn't always about greatness. It's about consistency. Consistent hard work leads to success." Dwayne Johnson

"Success is the sum of small efforts, repeated day in and day out." Robert Collier

"Success doesn't come from what you do occasionally. It comes from what you do consistently." Marie Forleo

"Success is neither magical nor mysterious. Success is the natural consequence of consistently applying the basic fundamentals." Jim Rohn